i feel like you don't love me anymore letters

Would he move into his own place and be your friend? It's painful for me to leave you, Jerry, but I only have our best interests at heart.I'm sorry that I didn't get in touch with you yesterday. The format is irrelevant. Am I right to say that she doesn't have enough information from her husband?

My husband and I have been together for 30 years (high school sweethearts). Please let me remember why. It seems as if we fight all the time.

I don’t want to be the only one to want this thing. Yet, here we are; I'm sitting here writing this letter, and you're somewhere else. If I have decided to write to you today, it’s because I don’t know how to handle your behavior. We need to end this relationship. When you have digested all of this, please write.Writing this letter makes me very sad. Writing this letter makes me very sad. But for now, you have unanswered questions. It’s not in my nature to fail and anything I say I’m going to do. Love me. Now that that the bedroom activity is gone, there's nothing. Please love me harder. If we find that we need to go separate ways, I'm sure we can have that conversation honestly and amicably.

I hope you don't really hate me and think I am a bitch, as you told me, because I don't think I am like that and was not acting right today. Until one night, you got out of the shower and suddenly decided you didn’t love me anymore. How hard would it be to say, “I’m proud of you!”?When you ask me to do something, I plan on doing it. Depression runs in his family. I'm writing you this letter because I'm afraid if I try to talk to you in person we'll start fighting. But we tend to migrate from one issue to another, quarreling about anything and everything--which has brought me to a hard decision.I can't live like this anymore. The truth is that we're both at fault; I'm as much to blame as you are for the problems that we have. He hasn't said, "I want to separate to see how it feels." I have been stressed out and on edge with everyone around me. You No Longer Respect Me In Public. That is why I think the only wise solution is to separate for awhile and see if "absence makes the heart grow fonder," or if our relationship is actually worn out and we find ourselves with a mutual case of "out of sight, out of mind." He has a stressful job, and provides for almost all of the financial needs of our family. Please hold me hand in public and private places without me having to ask for it first. That's when I found out about it, but he says he's been feeling it for much longer.He hasn't come near me for months, and there was some trouble prior to that. It was all a whirlwind of blissful peace. Find out whether he's waiting to make a move because he wants you to be the one to do it.Readers? We were happy. I've consulted a doctor and he has prescribed some medicine and some time away from the stress of our relationship. Our story unfortunately isn’t one. Is he suggesting that he wants to work on this again?My advice is to ask him what he wants to do. I know I still love him, I don't want a divorce, but I also don't want to live my life in a loveless marriage.I don't think that this is a mid-life crisis, LIL. It's just so hard to admit that we are so combustible when we are together.

I don't know how long is fair to wait it out before I have to move on. I don't even know if we really try to get along anymore. I finally knew what peace was: to be calm in my heart even when circumstances turned life upside down. If you don’t love me or feel the same way, that’s one thing. Choose me. And just like that, I was benched . Maybe we could try again in the future to make it work, but I can't try anymore right now. Move to a new town? We still live in the same house sleep in separate rooms have two kids together and spend alot of time together. He hasn't asked, "What do you want to do?"

We used to be so loving and good to each other, but now it seems as if all we do is count each other's imperfections.

In other words, we can't just end our relationship and throw away all that we've built up together over the past three years until we know for sure where we stand. You were my home. This isn't to say that you didn't love me, because I know you did. I'm sure that you were surprised when you got home last night and found me (and some of my stuff) gone. That doesn't mean I think we shouldn't contact each other at all. It’s also a story about how an online community can become another kind of family.

Your letter suggests that there have been problems over the years and that whatever is happening right now is the cumulative result of two people growing apart. Travel? And you're happiness doesn't include me. He says he's sorry, I didn't do anything wrong, he still loves me, but isn't in love with me. I guess my question for you is: What does your husband want to do about all of this?He told you all of these upsetting things ... and now you're asking us how long you have to wait it out before you move on. I find myself exhausted most of the time, yet I can't sleep at night. Here I am choosing you among the many people that are around.